A solo performance created by John Cartwright in collaboration with multidisciplinary artist Elizabeth Sugawara, I dont remember when it started is the first piece crafted by the duo also known as For Me, For You. The work employs absurd humor and queer melancholia in an effort to liberate the current self from past lenses. Enmeshing himself in the residue of frustrated freedom, the performer invites viewers to consider their own playful expression of queerness. This piece premiered at Urban Arts Space in Columbus, OH, January 2023.